Comments on: Another Raw Nerve, Too http://www.blogitude.com/2008/06/19/another-raw-nerve-too/ Blogging with Attitude Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:03:41 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7-beta3-9826 hourly 1 By: Mark http://www.blogitude.com/2008/06/19/another-raw-nerve-too/comment-page-1/#comment-14541 Mark Sat, 21 Jun 2008 04:36:26 +0000 http://www.blogitude.com/?p=920#comment-14541 Thank you, Joan. :-) When you're back up, lemme know. Wish we'd been able to talk to ya more when you were here. Thank you, Joan. :-)

When you’re back up, lemme know. Wish we’d been able to talk to ya more when you were here.

]]> By: Joan http://www.blogitude.com/2008/06/19/another-raw-nerve-too/comment-page-1/#comment-14539 Joan Sat, 21 Jun 2008 01:29:49 +0000 http://www.blogitude.com/?p=920#comment-14539 One of the things I've always enjoyed about your blog, Mark, is your raw emotion and the insight into your life when you're not being cryptic. Divorce is always hard but having family take sides makes things a lot worse. I think you have enough stress in your life without dealing with things like this. At the same time, Mark, you need to try and stay focused. Your family have destroyed enough of your life, and while breaking the silence can provide insight into why you are the way you are, it can also make you seem more angry than you really are to people who aren't familiar with the situation. You are a sweetheart, Mark, and I hope you never change. You need to focus on Ann. She feels like your wife. With her you've happier than I've ever seen you. The sparkle in your eyes came back. Your sadness disappears when you speak of her. I am certain that she feels the same. Don't let these people take that away. Love her. She is what matters to you. Not your past. One of the things I’ve always enjoyed about your blog, Mark, is your raw emotion and the insight into your life when you’re not being cryptic. Divorce is always hard but having family take sides makes things a lot worse. I think you have enough stress in your life without dealing with things like this.

At the same time, Mark, you need to try and stay focused. Your family have destroyed enough of your life, and while breaking the silence can provide insight into why you are the way you are, it can also make you seem more angry than you really are to people who aren’t familiar with the situation.

You are a sweetheart, Mark, and I hope you never change. You need to focus on Ann. She feels like your wife. With her you’ve happier than I’ve ever seen you. The sparkle in your eyes came back. Your sadness disappears when you speak of her. I am certain that she feels the same. Don’t let these people take that away.

Love her. She is what matters to you. Not your past.

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