Sweet, Not Bitter
February 20th, 2008 at 11:36 pm by Mark SteelTags: blogging, enjoy-life, humor, memes
I’m reluctant to post this, because it’s a little embarrassing and it might ruin my reputation..
But, after passing out ten Rated E for Excellent awards, I ended up getting passed Judy’s (of Sugar Queen’s Dream) “Sweet as Sugar” award, and being paid a tremendous compliment, by that crazy canuck known as Fracas:
Now those who might think being a sweetie is reserved for women couldn’t be more wrong. In his day to day life, I happen to know that Mark is a sweetie to not just his lovely woman… but to a whole host of people that look to him for help, advice, friendship and all that good stuff. So Mark… suck this one up. You’re a sweetie and I guess you’ll just have to live with it.
Without the quote, it was a little embarassing, however, I understand and appreciate the sentiment. Though I’m a bit of a wildcard at times, and some people might not see it.
I’m supposed to pass this on to three more people. The fact is, I have a lot of great friends, I know a lot of good people, and I’m acquainted with many more. Out of that lot, it’d be absolutely impossible for me to pick three who deserve it more than others.
That said, however, there are three people in my life who epitomize selflessness. They’re “Sweet as Sugar.” And they’re not bloggers.
The first person on that list is my Wildcat. And I know that may not come as a shock to anyone, but it’s true. Everyone who knows this woman has nothing but good things to say about her. She works in a hospital, and can bring a smile to the face of the most distraught. Everyone around town adores her, and they’re extremely protective of her.
Mind you, it can be difficult on occasion. She’s so genuinely caring of others that she sometimes forgets to take time for herself. And if there’s any question that she’s a Saint, the fact that she picked — and puts up with — me speaks volumes.
The next two are in their eighties, and sharp as ever. I’ve known them my entire life, and enjoyed their kindness, company and wit throughout. They’ve treated me like I was their own child, and still continue to show me that no matter what happens, they’re there for me.
And sometimes I feel like a bad son because I don’t see them as often as I should. Schedules conflict, out of town, tried to call — all the usual excuses. But when it comes right down to it, I simply haven’t put forth enough effort. That’s something that I know I need to rectify.
So that’s my three. Sorry I’m breaking a meme, but sometimes we need to honor people outside of the blogosphere. ![]()














February 21st, 2008 at 1:12pm
Awwww!!!!!
February 21st, 2008 at 1:16pm
I don’t think you broke a meme Mark, you just proved you deserved to be given it in the first place.
Seriously, Judy was very clear when she gave it to the first people, that we’re supposed to only give it to people if we believe they are sweet and deserving. Your choices seem to honor her request.
And honestly… it’s so not embarassing to be considered a sweet guy along with all those other things you are Mark. Women want a guy who can be sweet, yet not a wuss. I think you fit the bill. Your Wildcat knows she’s lucky, I’m sure of it!
February 21st, 2008 at 1:23pm
Thanks … erm … *hides red face* As for her feeling lucky, I’ll have to ask her… maybe after we go spend some time with the old ladies…